Marriage Counseling

2008-07-25T12:22:00.000-07:00

In this new modern age, divorce rates are as high as they have always been. Many people are being cheated on in their marriage, as well as cheating on their spouses. It’s no wonder that marriages are failing everywhere you look in these days.

I recently saw a news report on a company that helps people cover their tracks when cheating on their spouses, or when they go on a trip with their ‘friend’. This company prints out fake plane tickets to the cheater’s fake destination and covers every angle possible to cover their tracks. It even changes caller ID and other records to make it seem like they are calling from where they said they were going rather than where they actually went with their ‘acquaintance’.
It’s almost impossible to know if your spouse is cheating under these conditions nowadays. With cheating spouses being the number one cause of divorces, it’s important to know what the warning signs of a cheating spouse are.

20 Warning Signs of a Cheating Spouse

1. Your spouse seems bored. Bored with you, with job, with kids, with hobbies, with life in
general.
2. Your spouse seems to want danger or thrills in his/her life.
3. There is considerably less intimacy in your relationship. Your sex life is practically non
existent.
4. Your spouse has a low self-esteem.
5. You notice your spouse has a sense of confusion about self.
6. You spouse has become lazy, especially around the house.
7. You can't get your spouse to communicate with you.
8. Your spouse gets very defensive if you mention infidelity or affairs.
9. Your spouse is suddenly more attentive than usual.
10. Your mate is working longer hours at work.
11. Your spouse is dressing nicer, looking nicer.
12. You notice charges on credit card statement that don't make sense.
13. Your spouse is indifferent to family events like birthdays and holidays.
14. You find your partner has been lying to you about a variety of things.
15. Money becomes more of an issue between the two of you.
16. He/she doesn't want to go anywhere or do anything with you anymore.
17. You can't even get your mate to fight with you.
18. You feel as if you are being avoided.
19. Your partner abandons religious faith.
20. Your spouse seems more secretive.

(http://marriage.about.com/cs/infidelity/a/infidelsigns.htm)

It is important to realize that not all these signs will be showing in their life. It’s also important to realize that some of these signs may show up in their life, but it could be caused by something completely unrelated to cheating and affairs. Every person is different and will show different signs of being in an affair.

On this blog I’ve placed some different helpful programs to help in bringing back a lost love or a forgotten love, to help catch a cheating spouse, and to help stop a possible divorce.

2008-07-25T12:21:00.001-07:00

Because of the escalation of cheating spouses and partners, people (possibly you) need tools to help save what they have left of a marriage and to help mend the relationship. Here are some possible tools for you to choose from. I will be posting more every once in a while, but these are the main ones. If you are on here and are having problems with your relationship, please remember that your marriage IS a relationship; some compromise from BOTH sides needs to be taken. Don’t be scared to talk about your feelings and don’t be scared to say, “I’m Sorry.” You married this person for a reason; take a weekend with them to remember those reasons. ABOVE ALL ELSE: LISTEN. These tools won’t fix the problem, but they will get you started on the right track.

2008-07-25T12:18:00.000-07:00

Bring back the Love of your life, no matter how hopeless your situation appears.
Bring Back a Lost Love

This is an eBook that give tips and ideas to help save and salvage your marriage, even if only you want to.
Save the Marriage

This will provide Strategies And Resources To Break Free From The Affair In A Marriage.
Break Free

What To Do When Your Spouse Says: I Don't Love You Anymore! Keep Your Spouse From Bolting & Buy Time To Improve Your Marriage.
Keep the Marriage

Help Save Your Marriage & Stop Your Divorce.
Stop the Divorce

1000 Questions for couples on what you absolutely must know about your relationship - test your compatibility and grow deeper in love. Helps to spark deep, intimate conversations.
1000 Questions

2008-07-25T12:16:00.000-07:00

Save your Marriage today with this resource.
Save a Marriage

These next couple I personally feel a little weird about, but for some people these surveillance tools could be right. Just make sure you aren't using them for the wrong reasons.

Ultimate surveillance software. Records all web sites visited, all keystrokes typed, all incoming and outgoing e-mails.
PC Pandora

How to catch a cheating spouse.
Catch a Cheater

2008-07-25T11:56:00.000-07:00

I hope that one of these products can help you in your success to a long, happy marriage. I have personally used the 1000 Questions book and a couple others by the same author. They have definitely helped me and my wife better understand each other and how the other feels. We've come a long way and I hope that you can do the same with your spouse.